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Originally Posted by EggPlantKing I need a females perspective does size count. I measured and discovered I am 6 inch long and 3 inches around is this small or normal.  |
Size has very little to do with being a great lover.
My best lover EVER - not my current partner - was quite small, and when he met me he had an inferiority complex about it because of negative feedback from his wife, who actively searched out large organs.
Loving his wife and wanting to please her despite her preference for larger organs - she was quite large herself - he had become an absolutely phenomenal cunnilinguist over his years of marriage, but sadly, despite his ability to satisfy her orally, she continued to belittle him about his size, and his inferiority complex remained.
As a close friend one of her large-organed playmates, I was invite to join them in a foursome FWB relationship and he was amazing!
He was the most passionate and yet sensitive man I've ever been with - he was a true "lover" - and combined with his skill in oral, not only was he regularly able to give me multiple orgasms orally - which no man before or SINCE has been able to do - but after four or five oral orgasms, he would enter me and though his organ WAS a bit smaller than most men I've been with, it was quite large enough, with my legs over his shoulders, to hit my G-spot, and we'd finish with a mind-blowing SIMULTANEOUS full-body orgasm - again, something that happens very infrequently to me.
Needless to say, he quickly lost his inferiority complex about the size of his member and about his ability as a lover in general.
A great lover is a great lover for many reasons, some of it's skill, some of it's a match in the size department, but to me, the most important things are passion and sensitivity.