Re: Did I mess up?
Did you mess up?
Yeah, probably...but, not necessarily by playing with your BF's best friend, more by not having the communication open enough to discuss all possibilities that may arise.
Bringing a friend into a play session is a tricky situation...all parties must understand and know what is at stake...what the rules are during and after play.
We do play with one of Ted's best friends and have been lucky in the fact that other than introducing sex into the equation, nothing has changed with the friendship. It's not something that we recommend, especially to newbies, but it is possible for it to be a positive experience.
Teresa
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