eggplantking, i know you looking for some reasurance from women and im a guy, but i had to put my 2 cents in because yes we are the same size and it really did used to bother me. iv learned to accept who i am and my size, and belive me sex has gotten so much better with out the size hang up. iv been there trust me i know. yes mrs.fun has had bigger, both sizes (lengh and girth) and she prefers a little more on the girth side. does it bother me? maby when i was younger and a little less understanding but certainaly not now. why? because im the guy she loves and wants to share her life with and i totaly trust her with that. yea iv been at the clubs and had the bigger guys around and its not threatning why? (because its sexual not marrital) mrs.fun really appreciates my feelings with that. why do the wemon at clubs and get togethers pick me over the bigger men? well they certainly appreciate me not having the hangups about myself for one.
i mean would you want mrs. eggplantking to be so worried about the other women in the world. or who (you) have been with, with bigger boobs ,shorter, taller,prettier or tighter? i wouldn't think so. you would want her to have some confidence in herself sexually that she is the one you want to spend your life with, rite?
if size is a problem with you, i can relate, and i hope you deal with it, and find a way to feel comfortable about your average size, your not alone.if mrs.fun and i were at a club or get together and mr. 9x5 was standing there she would be eyes wide open

but she would probably lean a little more your way.your confidence would win over.
as for myself i just dont mesure people or myself with a ruler. there is alot more to sex and life than that.