 Re: Did I mess up?
Sorry to hear that your threesome with a friend went bad. Sounds to me like the problem is just plain old communication.
You need to talk with your boyfriend and let each other know as much as you can about whats on each others mind and in your heart. Try to not get emotional (yes - not that easy but you need to talk not scream) and take a time-out if things start to get heated.. Then you two must decide if this friendship is worth saving.
If it is then confront your boyfriends friend and and talk (no screaming) about his and your feelings. He may be very embarassed about not being able to get erect because he was afraid of breaking the two of you up.
Of course this can damage your friendships even more but since everyone is uncomfotable all ready you don't have much to lose.
Wish you luck and hope all of you can work this out.
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