As my mama says, 'it's not
THAT easy to get pregnant.'
I'm on the pill and have been for 15 years and I definitely take it religiously. So, there's a 3% chance of my getting pregnant from that. Then, factor in that we use condoms, which has about an 85% effectiveness rate, and I think I have a better shot at getting struck by lightening (which is surprisingly common). Is it a possibility? Yes. Something I worry about a great deal? No.
As far nesting is concerned, Drew and I don't have any children, and are undecided on whether we will have children, so mixed feelings about protecting children isn't something we deal with. And, it seems that a lot of people our age who swing either don't have any children, or they do, but they don't seem riddled with guilt about swinging and what it may do to the children. At least, we haven't noticed any distractions ...
Pepper