Hi there!
We are both 34, do not have children, and do not plan on having children. I have been on the pill for 15 years. I guess I am one of those long-term experiments

. I am very diligent about taking the pill...it is such a ritual for me. We also always use condoms with our playmates. We have considered surgical measures but haven't made the decision yet. Besides, I like being predictable on the pill

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So, I guess what I am saying is that -planning for a future pregnancy is not something that drives my swinging activities. I don't know about the emotional peice and the desire to have a family. I have never felt that. I just feel like I have always felt.
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