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Amanda69 · 08-02-2006, 07:16 AM

Okay yes I know that title is a little goofy. I just could not come up with something else to reflect what I want to ask about.

In this thread http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/...267#post236267 a Poster was asking about contraception for the prevention of pregnancy while swinging.

In my response I included the information that when I first started swinging the average age appeared much older and had mostly finished with their baby making years. It really wasn't a topic that came up at all during that time and I never heard any stories of someone getting pregnant and being unsure of who the father might be.

Now I do recognize that the average age appears to be a lot younger these days. How do younger couples deal with the risk of pregnancy? (as the poster in the other thread pointed out Condoms do break). What about emotionally during this time? Isn't this when a couple is moving more insular, starting their family...protective of the young children and babies. How do you cope with the mixed feelings? Or do you have any mixed feelings?

To be honest I can't imagine me swinging during that time in my life. My head wwas in a total other space emotionally and biologically.

Have people heard of couples getting pregnant in the lifestyle and questioning who the father is? Or is this just another myth started to scare people out of swinging? (We have certainly never heard of this)

Younger couples is this something that you consider when looking at swinging?

08-02-2006, 07:16 AM	#1 (permalink)
Amanda69 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 907 Location: Mississauga, ON Canada Status: couple	Swinging in your Baby making years Okay yes I know that title is a little goofy. I just could not come up with something else to reflect what I want to ask about. In this thread http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/...267#post236267 a Poster was asking about contraception for the prevention of pregnancy while swinging. In my response I included the information that when I first started swinging the average age appeared much older and had mostly finished with their baby making years. It really wasn't a topic that came up at all during that time and I never heard any stories of someone getting pregnant and being unsure of who the father might be. Now I do recognize that the average age appears to be a lot younger these days. How do younger couples deal with the risk of pregnancy? (as the poster in the other thread pointed out Condoms do break). What about emotionally during this time? Isn't this when a couple is moving more insular, starting their family...protective of the young children and babies. How do you cope with the mixed feelings? Or do you have any mixed feelings? To be honest I can't imagine me swinging during that time in my life. My head wwas in a total other space emotionally and biologically. Have people heard of couples getting pregnant in the lifestyle and questioning who the father is? Or is this just another myth started to scare people out of swinging? (We have certainly never heard of this) Younger couples is this something that you consider when looking at swinging?
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