 Re: Have we become friends?
We have found a couple of things,
Real friends are very rare in swinging.
We can count the amount of genuine friends we have made in the lifestyle on one hand. I think one of the main reasons for this is that it is really unusual to find people in the lifestyle who we have anything in common with other than swinging.
It seems that the more we become friends the less we have sex.
For me, swinging is about the new sexual encounters. I already have a regular sex partner. Once I start to get to know someone real well then the sexual attraction I feel for them usually wanes, not always but most of the time.
what is happening to you has happened to us more often than not.
When this happens to us we usually first confront them with it. We do that mainly to find out if it is something that can be worked out. In the end though we usually just go our seperate ways.
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