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Originally Posted by chulo It's a common mistake to turn a swinging relationship into a friendship: it totally ruins it. There is nothing more exciting than anonymous sex or play (go to a European swinging club and you will see what I mean). To the extent that it is possible, don't even learn their names, use e-mail to set the encounters and never use your house or theirs. If you or them can bring additional new partners ocassionally, all the better. |
Chulo,
That would be cool, if that was what we were looking for.
Thing is, we realize that we will have a harder time finding playmates because we do want to be friends, and that is fine with us. We don't mind the occasional "hook up" and those are great, but for the playmates that are near us, we are looking for friends and well...we just don't think friends treat friends in this manner.
-Van