Please JNCC and DarkBlue, don't take this the wrong way. I agree completely with what both these guys have to say. Becareful, after reading their responce I felt angry, not at them just angry. Don't go to her with this type of anger and have 3 years tossed in your face.
Please concider doing as Intuition suggested, talk to her find out if your relationship is worth what she is getting from the club. Then with your head, not your heart decide if her answer was what you need to make you happy. If not, carry on.
You will be fine.
Keep your head up and eyes on what you want in your future.
Your friend,
Prettylady
