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Old 07-30-2006, 12:51 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Default Re: Losing my girlfriend. Help!

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Originally Posted by Tommy_Boy
I have been with my girlfriend for the past 3 years. We have never had any sort of open relationship, but recently we started getting into the swingers scene (about 2 weeks ago) through a friend.

I went a couple of times with my girlfriend and it wasn't really my thing. I also didn't like the idea of watching my girlfriend have sex with other men in front of my face. My girlfriend on the other hand loves it and goes to the club with my friend as much as she can.

I talked to her about it the other day after hearing some stories from my friend about what she was doing, and they made my heart stop. She simply said she wanted to try new things and this was just a phase.

I have never been one to get jealous but she is out all night for most of the week doing god knows what with god knows how many people.

I know I brought this on myself, but I really love this girl. We have been together for 3 years and the topic of marriage has come up more than once.
Has the topic of "moving her shit out of your house and starting over with somebody who isn't fucking half the town" ever come up?

Imagine that one of your friends were telling you the story you just told us. How hard would it be to figure out what his best course of action would be?

This girl has some serious issues. Marry her and her "issues" will become your "issues."

Bail. NOW!
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