[Tommy_Boy]

Well, first post here and I wish it was under better circumstances.

I have been with my girlfriend for the past 3 years. We have never had any sort of open relationship, but recently we started getting into the swingers scene (about 2 weeks ago) through a friend.

I went a couple of times with my girlfriend and it wasn't really my thing. I also didn't like the idea of watching my girlfriend have sex with other men in front of my face. My girlfriend on the other hand loves it and goes to the club with my friend as much as she can.

I talked to her about it the other day after hearing some stories from my friend about what she was doing, and they made my heart stop. She simply said she wanted to try new things and this was just a phase.

I have never been one to get jealous but she is out all night for most of the week doing god knows what with god knows how many people.

I thought about going with her when she goes so I can keep an eye on her, but I don't want to be considered one of those creepy boyfriends who follows his girlfriend.

I know I brought this on myself, but I really love this girl. We have been together for 3 years and the topic of marriage has come up more than once. I am really at a loss here so if anyone has any advice on how I should approach this, it would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks.

-Tommy