[EvilMJ]

We do both separate and same play and I have to agree that we seem to have a better time with separate room play.

I think it is becuase I my attention gets taken away I am so aware of the other couple that I get distracted and I don't enjoy it as much.
One big problem I find is that everyone has a different 'finsihing' times and if the other couple is done before us then there is that rush to finish, or the pressure for them to drag it out.

I guess I can focus more on the partner I am with. So I think I am experiencing the same things you are in that sense.