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Old 07-25-2006, 07:56 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Default Re: Why same/seperate room play.

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Originally Posted by good times
My questions for all of you are,

1. For those that have played in both same room, and separate rooms, have you noticed that the sex is better in separate rooms when you are both able to give 100% to your partner?
I don't know if it's better for me, but I definitely feel I give better to my partner since I end-up watching Mrs. WS so often when we are in the same room. I become a total voyeur.

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3.If you were in a position where your swing partner is paying so much attention to their spouse that it is not working for you, what would you do to improve the situation?
Being more dominant and taking more control. Being more aggressive has worked well for me.

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