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Originally Posted by Mike and Jan You are right about there not being a middle-ground between swinging and polymorous relationships.
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Thank you Mike and Jan, it's very enlightening to hear we aren't "alone" in our ways of thinking and feeling. We aren't "looking" for love per-say, but if it happens, it's a huge bonus in
our life as a couple.
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Originally Posted by Mike and Jan I could definitely see two couples, living separate marriages and in separate households, but being best friends for a long time and enjoying sexual adventures together as well. |
That would be wonderful, especially if they lived next door
, but we are also open to singles here, for the reason that so far that is whom I developed these feelings for.....a man who was our first swinging partner, and almost invited to move in with us.....an ex-girlfriend of my husbands. I think that with couples like you said, it would be awesome, but it's so hard to find that kind of connection just for sex, much less more...that getting that 4way spark going is difficult to say the least.
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Originally Posted by Mike and Jan Sounds like a nice arrangement and lifestyle (whichever category) to me. |
It sounds nice to us too, and possibly like mentioned above, may even lead to moving in together and extending our family to include them. And yeah I guess the category is floating in the middle , but we think it would still be nice of the 2 wonderful lifestyles that are so open minded to enjoying life, whatever that is to each, to not actually claim to only be one or the other,
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Originally Posted by Mike and Jan Good luck to you both and I hope you find that other lucky couple. |
Thanks again, and we hope to also !
So...is it "Good things come to those who wait" ? Well we'll be here waiting and waiting and waiting etc.... and if it's meant to be ...cool, if not....oh well ...we had alot of fun trying
xoxoxo C