Me again. Chicup uses a perfect word. "Lover".
It is an all incupasing word. I love my father but he is not my lover, I love my neighbour but he is not my lover. Why?
Because I don't have the connection one has with another person whom you don't have a physical relationship with.
Dog is my lover because of many reasons, one being the intimacy shared while making love. you don't get that anywhere else. That is why he, and not my Dad, is my lover.
Sex is more the just "banging". There is the eye contact, the caresses, the special names, and many other aspects that you can not get at anyother time and place.
OK lets make a disclaimer here. Yes you can have empty sex, but even when you out right F*@K your SO there is a connection.
If our young friend can not get that connection then he is missing too much in life. Sorry akaab but if you cannot get that connection with your female friend, do both of yourselfs a favor and find someone who can so she can to.
Your freind,
Prettylady
