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Originally Posted by Estaque I can't believe the superficial responses. It is perfectly possible to be in love with someone you're not completely physically attracted to, especially if they are a caring person and they meet your emotional needs. And there's nothing wrong with that. If this guy is like most young men, he gets turned on by every skirt he sees prancing down the street. |
I agree that it is possilbe to love someone you are not physically attracted to. But sex is a large part of who we are. I love sex, I can't and wont live without it.(unless there is a medical or emotional problem putting sex on hold).
Truley happy couples are that way because of healthy sex lives. There was a couple a few years back that celebrated their 100th birthdays and when asked about their long lives, they smiled and claimed sex as their key to happiness.
I have never been sexual with a person I did not find at least somewhat physically attractive. But to build on that, I love alot of people who I would never have sex with.
Yes it is possible, but realisticlly I can't see someone at 21 years old being happy for the rest of his life with someone who does not appeal to him sexually.
I say if it is a matter of a bit of fitness, or better foods that could change her from hohum to vavoom. ask her to join the gym with you. Or perhaps she likes to dance. Dog just asked if I wanted to try ballroom dancing with him.
Dog and I are busy people, but this is a great way for excersice and the best part of it is his arms are around me. Can't do that in the gym
Good luck my young friend
Your friend,
Prettylady
