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Old 07-21-2006, 04:36 PM   #11 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Estaque
He clearly stated that he is in fact in love with her.

And I didn't get the impression that he is not sexually attracted to her, just that he is more attracted to some other women. If he's in love with her and she fulfills his emotional needs then it is up to him to decide if it's worth it to hang in there or not.

Not everyone in the world is superficial.
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I am in love with her but do not get turned on by her. Being a former swinger and a highly sexual person, it is tough for me to not be turned on by a girl that I could be with for a very long time
I think he was pretty clear. I think any long term sexual relationship where there is no turn on is doomed to end in a cheating incident years down the road when he meets someone who turns him on again. Just my .02.
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