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Originally Posted by Estaque I can't believe the superficial responses. It is perfectly possible to be in love with someone you're not completely physically attracted to, especially if they are a caring person and they meet your emotional needs. And there's nothing wrong with that. If this guy is like most young men, he gets turned on by every skirt he sees prancing down the street. |
Every skirt but his gf's apparently.
I don't think not being turned on by your S.O. is a superfical problem, its a big problem in any sexual relationship and worse if you are only dating without a long history.
If a guy is 21, wants to be a swinger, and has a gf he is not attracted to and has no desire to swing, my advice would be to move on. She may be a great person as a friend, but obviously not what he is looking for in a lover. A good union should have both.