 Re: Need Advice
I agree with She_n_Jaybee on several issues.
If you care about someone and are not attracted to them I can see it going south in the long run. Physical attraction is very important in a relationship.
If she doesn't want to swing, there is nothing you are going to be able to say to make her, and it shouldn't be a replacement for things lacking in your relationship (I realize you didn't say that it was, but just a thought).
I don't think telling her that you don't turn her on is wise either, no sense in hurting her over something she can't control. Just becuase you are not attracted to her does not mean that there is anything wrong with her, there might be someone else out there who will think she is perfect the way she is.
You need to determine if this is the woman for you, and only you can answer that question and at 21 you have a lot of years ahead of you, so think carefully.
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