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Originally posted by ddrewd:
I've changed my view on this question ever since I've begun associating with swingers. Not too long ago, I would have said 'Neither' in my case. There's just too much game playing, and it's frustrating.
Among swingers, everything is more upfront. Both men and women can try their hand at seduction, and no one has to be afraid of saying "No" or of having their feelings hurt.
Yes, there's a lot of game-playing among swingers, but in the swinging environment everyone knows the rules and can play along.
-Drew |
I don't know that I would classify seducing and flirting as game playing within swingers. When someone speaks of game playing, I tend to think more along the lines as someone trying to mess up someone's head and in the context of swingers who are flirting/seducing...the only thing that is happening is a heightening of the sexual tension which will eventually lead to, hopefully, a little bit more satisfing copulation between the two or how many ever involved.
Quin