[pumpkins1970]

Mr. Pump here, yes I admit I made an error in thinking my wife would not mind myself meeting this woman, even if it was just for a minute to say hello. I met this woman and her husband online one night in an AFF chatroom, and have been chatting with her/them ever since, aprrox 6-7 weeks ago. After I did meet this woman, (there was another person present). We said hello, have a nice day, ttyl. I told my wife that I had met her. My wife did not immediately tell me me this had upset her, in retrospect though, I can see why it would. I have apologized profusely, vowed never to do it again, I have explained this to the woman I had met, and now have stopped talking to her altogether. What I thought was an innocent meeting, it lasted maybe 2-3 minutes, looks like something that I really never should have done. I cannot say I am sorry enough to my wife.My wife is the best woman I have ever met, and I would never do a thing that I would think would cause her pain. I'm hoping she has the room in her heart to forgive me, for it is killing me that she is so upset.