Three months? Only you know whether that is too soon in your relationship or not. We met a couple on our second date, the next night after our first date, who invited us to swing with them. They were both fun people and very attractive. Had we known each other better we'd have done it. As it was, we decided to discuss the subject with each other before making a decision. About thirty minutes into the discussion, later that night, we decided we wanted to. We've never changed our minds.
We never saw that couple again. It was three years before we tried it the first time. There have been long times between playmates but we've never wanted to stop, except when we decided to have children.
We like it because it's the most fun you can have with your clothes off. Seriously, we feel we can only make love with each. "Sex-for-fun" works better with someone you like but don't love. The combinations two couples can make is unobtainable elsewhere.
Mr. Alura |