Hello and thank you for your thoughts so far. Daisy Girl you asked me if there was sex involved, no, he had never seen her before, but I would never meet anyone without my husband being present, like I say we always play as a couple and for him to do this even if it sounds harmless to him, it did raise some red flags for me. I guess she does have a partner/husband, but I don't know if he wants to or if he even knows about the swinging part of it. I just didn't like the part where he felt he had to look nice in front of her, I mean that tells me that he must be interested in her somewhat, and I still consider that cheating, and I wish he would have told me this was going to happen(her going to his work site) because I would have told him that I didn't think that is was right or fair to me for him to do that. You also asked me about their conversations, and yes they are sexual and non-sexual, he does play yahoo games with her also, but I have walked in and seen her half undressed on the cam, and that doesn't even bother me we are into this lifestyle, and I'm not a jealous person, I mean we do have sex with other couples, but like I say it just didn't set right with me.