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Originally Posted by pumpkins1970 *snip* we play together as a couple and do not play alone, and we are very open with one another, but he has been talking on the computer with another female ( I think it is getting a little out of hand) he talks to her every night on the computer and even told her where he was working (knowing that this girl likes him, and would show up there) and he even put on one of his nicer work shirts. I didn't know about any of this intill after it happend, and I think he just told me out of guilt, *snip* |
In my book, cheating is anything that you can't tell your spouse or SO about.
In our marriage, there is no "line of death". If you think the other person will be mad about something you're doing. Odds are, they probably will. If you think telling them about what happened will lead to some hot sex, it's probably OK.
A friend of mine just had her marriage break up over one kiss, some hand touching and eye gazing. (That and a deep seated incompatibility.) It would be nothing to me, but she knew she shouldn't be doing it when it happened and she knew her SO would be upset. It was cheating.
I know that I could never let someone into my life in a way that would interfere with my love for Mrs. FC4L. It just couldn't happen. How do I know that? It happened once and I know what it feels like and will never do it again.
That's why I can look at some python-dicked muscle boy banging the snot out of her and think about how much I love her.
Mr. FC4L