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JP51 · 07-19-2006, 08:48 AM

Ok, let me say, it appears he is either just doing a lot of flirting or he is getting something from her that is not in a swinging relationship; Or heck they could just share a lot of things in common. Set down and talk it out, take a time out from that couple! Taking a time out, will get over the "man was the sex just so great"; issue, if there is more to it; it will come out over time.

I have flirted a lot, after the first meet, after the first sex, but never in secret, and we keep a common email account for folks we play with, we do not use seperate email for our special friends. That way if I say something, my wife knows what I said, she can read the email anytime, and I can read what she post...more often than not, one of use tell the other one to read a message to them.

Now to the direct question, yes. I have crossed the line, but it was even before we were playing with the couple (long term friends), and I did not know how close we had become until after we played. We did take a time out, it worked, we are still close (still vacation and play together as a group), but it not I have to talk to her daily thing anymore.

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JP51 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 176 Location: Texas Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:jimdebra1	Re: Has this ever happened to you?? Ok, let me say, it appears he is either just doing a lot of flirting or he is getting something from her that is not in a swinging relationship; Or heck they could just share a lot of things in common. Set down and talk it out, take a time out from that couple! Taking a time out, will get over the "man was the sex just so great"; issue, if there is more to it; it will come out over time. I have flirted a lot, after the first meet, after the first sex, but never in secret, and we keep a common email account for folks we play with, we do not use seperate email for our special friends. That way if I say something, my wife knows what I said, she can read the email anytime, and I can read what she post...more often than not, one of use tell the other one to read a message to them. Now to the direct question, yes. I have crossed the line, but it was even before we were playing with the couple (long term friends), and I did not know how close we had become until after we played. We did take a time out, it worked, we are still close (still vacation and play together as a group), but it not I have to talk to her daily thing anymore.