I have a question and I'm wondering if anyone can help!! Let me start off by telling you a little about me and mr. pumpkin, we have been together for 13+ years and have been happy in our relationship and get along very well, mr. pumpkin came to me with the idea of swinging about a year ago, we have had alot of fun with it and met some very nice people, we play together as a couple and do not play alone, and we are very open with one another, but he has been talking on the computer with another female ( I think it is getting a little out of hand) he talks to her every night on the computer and even told her where he was working (knowing that this girl likes him, and would show up there) and he even put on one of his nicer work shirts. I didn't know about any of this intill after it happend, and I think he just told me out of guilt, but I'm very hurt and angry that he did this to me and really don't know what to do about it, I feel that it was cheating and it does not set right with me. He has said he was sorry, but I'm having a very hard time accepting his appology, and maybe this thread is for me just to vent, but I never thought it would come to this point.
