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Originally Posted by Chicup Also people WILL reject you for you weight, but people will also reject you for your face, your hair, your income and lots of other reasons, some you won't ever figure out. The hard part is developing a thick skin and not taking it too personal. We are all attracted to certain traits. |
Oh God, Chi. Why did what you are saying suddenly remind me of dating? And I didn't like dating! Oh well, even though swinging might be a little (or a lot) like dating, it's also about meeting new people, and
that I do like.
My little bird and I are "pleasently plump" and find each other's softness nice and huggable. Maybe others would, maybe they wouldn't. I think besides chemistry, one of the things I like most about a lady is a nice laugh and a nice smile and a sweet demeaner where she is nice to everyone, not just the beautiful people. I think that's "hot"!