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Chicup · 07-17-2006, 04:46 PM

A couple of things you should be aware of.

In our experiance while the clubs are diverse, there tends to be a trend in what body types are there. At 5'8" 200lbs you might be average for one club, on the thinner side at another, and the largest woman there at a third. At the LL events in Chicago I don't think I"ve seen a woman over 170, and the one who was, was about 6'0" tall, another club we go to is a mixed bag of nuts, followed by an other where the smallest woman would be 5'2" 170. I think people tend to gravitate to where they feel most comfortable to an extent.

Also people WILL reject you for you weight, but people will also reject you for your face, your hair, your income and lots of other reasons, some you won't ever figure out. The hard part is developing a thick skin and not taking it too personal. We are all attracted to certain traits. People as a whole are quite odd, and swingers have more than their share of wierdos so you can expect a fair share of odd rejections which have nothing to do with anything you can guess. We had one of those recently which leaves you thinking 'huh?'.

07-17-2006, 04:46 PM	#11 (permalink)
Chicup Not a potential *** Join Date: Nov 2001 Posts: 4,093 Location: Under the bed Status: Tired	Re: unsure of body image? A couple of things you should be aware of. In our experiance while the clubs are diverse, there tends to be a trend in what body types are there. At 5'8" 200lbs you might be average for one club, on the thinner side at another, and the largest woman there at a third. At the LL events in Chicago I don't think I"ve seen a woman over 170, and the one who was, was about 6'0" tall, another club we go to is a mixed bag of nuts, followed by an other where the smallest woman would be 5'2" 170. I think people tend to gravitate to where they feel most comfortable to an extent. Also people WILL reject you for you weight, but people will also reject you for your face, your hair, your income and lots of other reasons, some you won't ever figure out. The hard part is developing a thick skin and not taking it too personal. We are all attracted to certain traits. People as a whole are quite odd, and swingers have more than their share of wierdos so you can expect a fair share of odd rejections which have nothing to do with anything you can guess. We had one of those recently which leaves you thinking 'huh?'.