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Originally Posted by twohots4u2 Your rules sure are one sided! You want it all but you do not want him to do anything but watch. No wonder he broke your rules when he had a little too much to drink and his inhibitions were loosened. Perhaps you need to back up and figure out why and how you want to swing, and realize that it goes both ways. |
Dito
who's idea was it really to have such a one sided good time & is your husband really ok with you being the only person who has intimate contact with others or did he just agree to your terms ?
i have never understood how one person in a relationship can think its ok for them to have sex with others but the mere thought of their partner having anything to do with anybody else sends them through the roof.
both of you need to start talking (and hearing) about what EACH OTHER really wants out of the lifestyle,it sounds to me like your husband wants more out of all of this for himself then you are ok with him having.