i was reading this this morning when mrs.fun got up and we talked a little about it. then we had to go get some dishes we left at our friends party last night facelick. we agree with you that you were put on the spot while drinking

where ever you went when this happend your husband should have went with you for a little private talk.WE DO THAT.nobody minds and neither would we if someone els needed the same.
we realize that you are relatively new to all this and some things change as you go, but your husband brought you into this as a (watcher) with no desire to be with another woman?? then wants to change the rules at the spur of the moment because other swingers expect him to give it up.im sorry but thats a cop out!! we are swingers and we have never expected more from our playmates than the things we talk about.. nor dose anyone we play with expect us to change our rules because it is EXPECTED as swingers to do so.
now here is the part of your post that I mr.fun dont understand? you have been swinging 6 months mfm till 1 time your hubby gets with a woman and suddenly he is the expert on pleasing other mens wives? i'm sorry if i dont understand the remark, but if someone felt that i cant please mrs.fun.. well.. we probly wont be playing again. and if you said exactly that while we were in the middle of fucking

he would probly find his ass in the front yard nakid with the neighbors dogs barking while I GET A SECOND OPINION.. that just seems downwright rude to say that to/about another couple.