[menher1559]

I can't resist the temptation. One of the things we've learned through many years of swinging is that rules sometimes do change in mid stream. Like it or not....we've all found ourselves in situations that require a quick adaptation. WE always understand that no means no, and if i'm not comfortable with someone doing something to me, i can tell them, and with my wife, she is the same way. If she doesn't want something in her butt, she'll tell ya...lol.

With that being said, we are starting a new adventure with a couple. Ironically, they have been friends of ours for years and neither of us knew the others were swingers.. They responded to our Swing Lifestyle ad, and wow as we got to talking we figured a few things out.

With this relationship however, we are trying to take it slow and learn a few of the more intimate things about each of us. That way (hopefully) we will no exactly what the boundaries are before we all get naked with each other. WE are even going to try couple dating for a while. Damn, what a concept.

I guess with all this rambling, swinging is about the ability to share and adapt to situations. If everyone is on the same page, then there shouldn't be any problems....just be sure. we've found to be the best policy