I am an African American woman and this characteristic doesn't fit some people's definition/standard of beauty. But..I have found that there are many people that are
very 
attracted to me. I have many flaws but these flaws become irrelevant when I really think about how fun it is to play. I guess what I am saying is that there are so many definitions of sentuality, sexiness, and attractiveness...There are lots of people that will not be attracted to you but there are LOTS that will be.
So I say...Embrace yourself...imperfections and all. Confidence is so freakin' sexy!!!!!
Cheers!
Porttasters on Swing Lifestyle