We are no Ken and Barbie, but that does not stop us from having fun. The big thing is how comfortable are you with yourself. You need to be comfortable with your own body to relax around others. Not everyone is HWP and we may never be that, but like I said we have fun. What I think a turn off is, somebody who just worry's all the time about what everybody else thinks. My wife and I look through the Swing Lifestyle add's and see alot of people who are not the Ken and Barbie or that HWP. We both agree when we see some of the add's and they say that they are comfortable thier bodies we enjoy that. We go out to enjoy ourselves and if nothing happens thats fine, but we had a good time. I am not worried what others think as long as we had a good time that is all that matters. After three children and working all week, we need to let loose and dance on the weekends to gain some sanity.. I would rather try something then sit and wonder if I ever had a chance or I should have done something.
So go out and enjoy life.......
