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incommunicado · 07-04-2002, 10:28 AM

It's really less the term "swinging" than the core meaning.

This is a learning experience for me, so your indulgence please...

Your GF came to your relationship, maintaining a practice of multiple partners with one primary BF. As I understand what you wrote, other BFs tried but couldn't handle her lifestyle but you, can/have learned to, with understandable insecurities about penis size (we all have those). Am I up to speed so far?

At some point in her life, she decided this was right for her and others would have to accept it if they wanted to be with her.

What if you told her that you love her, that you have enjoyed sharing her experiences with her, that you have come to understand why she does what she does, and now share her need for more openness, on YOUR side. Tell her you hope she understands that you would like to involve other women in your play.

What do you think she would say?

Just curious.

07-04-2002, 10:28 AM	#8 (permalink)
incommunicado Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 198 Location: Baltimore, MD	It's really less the term "swinging" than the core meaning. This is a learning experience for me, so your indulgence please... Your GF came to your relationship, maintaining a practice of multiple partners with one primary BF. As I understand what you wrote, other BFs tried but couldn't handle her lifestyle but you, can/have learned to, with understandable insecurities about penis size (we all have those). Am I up to speed so far? At some point in her life, she decided this was right for her and others would have to accept it if they wanted to be with her. What if you told her that you love her, that you have enjoyed sharing her experiences with her, that you have come to understand why she does what she does, and now share her need for more openness, on YOUR side. Tell her you hope she understands that you would like to involve other women in your play. What do you think she would say? Just curious.