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Originally posted by BradAndJanet
I use Viagra because about 2 years ago I started having some problems maintaining erections (maybe due to my blood-pressure medication it turns out, but that's another post.) It was very troubling for me, as you might imagine, and Viagra enabled me to have sex with J. I can't tell you how depressing it was, at the age of 42, to think I might not be able to have sex again, and what a relief it was to find out that with Viagra I still could. Viagra has literally saved my sex life. |
In this situation and under a doctor's guidance and consideration of all the medications you were taking, this is perfectly warranted, in my opinion. I can understand the frustration and depression associated with losing the ability to make love to the person you love the most. If a dose of Viagra can allieviate that, then I am all for it.
In our case, that wasn't the problem. We didn't have trouble with each other, ours were just with other people in a swinging type situation.
As an example and based on personal experience. We have some play friends we don't get to see often due to distance. The first two times together were what the other male considered a disaster. Even WITH taking Viagra. The third time, he actually forgot to bring the Viagra with him, but a comfort level had been reached between all of us and his performance shocked himself. We have only met with them one time since, but he did not need Viagra in order to have a good time that night either.
For some it is a physical thing, for many though it is a mental thing, based on my limited experiences and knowledge. Again, it is just my opinon.
Lori