Re: Staying a virgin and swinging wow, I know I'm new to the board but red flags are jumping out everywhere here! This seems a bit like the Clinton thing... "it depends on what the definition of 'is' is..."
Why do you want to remain a virgin? As mentioned by others I don't think a future husband will be impressed with vaginal purity if every other sexual aspect has been explored. If it's for religious reasons... ditto. If you're just frightened because you've gone this long without intercouse, I sympathize but think what you're doing is much scarier than just having sex. When all is said and done, I agree with the fetish theory. Good luck! |