that's quite true indeed. specifically, i doubt if what we do fits well into the catogory of swining. open relationship may be a better term.
my gf were into multiple partners well before she became my gf. her ex-bf couldn't really bear to see her have sex with others. but that turns out to be a pleasure for me. she truly loves me and she's equally into promuscuity. our relationship can go on provided i allow for her freedom. i set few boundaries: only safe sex and no pregnancy. and she's thankful for that.
the only thing i may be jealous about is the penis size. it may be a shame for me to watch her have sex with someone with a gigantic size. she tries to talk me through it but i'm still concisous. besides, everything is fine.
provided both of us are happy, there's nothing to worry about. whether its called swinging or not, isn't it?
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