Re: Staying a virgin and swinging Sugar,
In addition to looking for sexual exploration, could there be something else you are seeking, too?
You've mentioned community and family a couple of times. Explore your sexuality. Great. But that may not be the only place in your life something is missing. You may need to do some introspection. Is there something missing? Friends, God or spirituality, social interaction, some sense of fulfillment or reward? How about that LTR you've mentioned? Are you very picky? A little afraid? Been hurt?
Oops. Lots of questions! Sorry. And you don't have to supply answers on the board; but some of them may at least be worth thinking about as you search for what will make you truly happy.
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