I'm new to this. My husband and I haven't done this type of thing since before we were married so we are kind of jumping back in just recently. This is 2 kids later mind you. I feel like my body just isn't what it used to be

and it depresses me that maybe I won't be appealing enough to another man. Has anyone else ever had these thoughts? I'm not real overweight but I have a few pudgy spots in the usual places, butt and thighs mainly. The thought of being totally naked with a strange, new man totally sounds sexy but at the same time I'm thinking "what am I thinking!!!"
Anyone have any advice they can share with me. It would be greatly appreciated.