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Old 07-11-2006, 01:30 PM   #15 (permalink)
NandTfromCA
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Join Date: Nov 2005
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Location: Northern California
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NandTfromCA gives some great advice
Default Re: mixed messages

Finding people on the Internet is all about marketing and knowing who you are marketing to. We don't require nude shots and we prefer not to see genital shots, but the presence or lack of either is not a deal killer. It’s just one of the factors that effects our consideration.

To answer the main question, we have found that most people are concerned first and foremost about general chemistry. But physical appearance, like it or not, is usually part of the chemistry equation. The cool thing is that there are plenty of people who are into your type (whatever it is) because preferences vary so much from person to person.

People are best to put pictures up that capitalize on what they are looking for (the following is not intended to be too serious):
“The fun couple”- maybe they are all clothed pics of them outside doing fun activities.
“The sweet couple”- maybe they are pictured together in all of their pics and are obviously in love.
“The hot couple”- people who are extremely physically fit and have pics to showcase that.
“The party people”- Every pic has someone different pictured with them in a party scene (Swing Lifestyle doesn’t have too many party people but LL is flooded with them- not good, not bad…they are just marketing to other party people).
“The serious fuckers”- every other pic shows them having sex with someone else. Some people refer to them as hardcore swingers. (we consider them just as fun as anyone else)
“The look at my who-who’ers”- most of the pics are close enough that even though you are looking at her genitals, you can see that she still has her tonsils OR every vein on his junk.
“The couple next door”- all casual, fully clothed, pleasant pictures. Often times shot in the entry of the home or the backyard.

Did I miss anything?

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