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Originally Posted by alphaplaycpl Since Mr. Alpha and i are Soft Swingers, I am curious to know...
Those of you who are full swap couples, if you learn that a couple considers themselves soft swingers, is it an immediate turn off? |
It's not a turn off, but it is a deal breaker. Mrs. FC4L doesn't do oral. Doesn't give; doesn't receive. She's in it for the pounding. That mostly eliminates soft-swap as an option.
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Do you perhaps set out to "convert" them to full-swap as a challenge?
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Nope. We have a pretty darn small set of partners. We're not out to change the world. (or have sex with it)
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Does it make a difference to you what a soft swinging couples rules are? In other words, if the couple either swaps or doesn't for oral, does it make a difference in whether you will play with them or not?
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Nope.
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Also - how many of you began in the lifestyle as soft swingers and have become full-swap?
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Nope.
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Thanks for your help satisfying my curiousity!
Mrs. Alpha
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I think you may find more people in the big wide world like you than like us. There's nothing wrong with being either way; it's just how you are. I'll bet our non-oral (with Mrs. FC4L) limits our play a lot more than soft swap does with you.
Mr. FC4L