[alphaplaycpl]

Thanks for all of the info! I am finding all the responses pretty interesting. It seems that there may be different swinging cultures out there...

Many of you mention that soft swingers bring too much drama, or don't know what they want. This makes me a bit nervous, as we certainly do not want to portray this to other swingers. We have made the decision to be soft swingers because we know exactly what we want (or don't want...)

Any suggestions on how to insure that we are not seen as a drama-filled, uptight couple with lots of rules? We only have one rule - no intercourse.

Thanks, again!
Mrs. Alpha