[NandTfromCA]

Those of you who are full swap couples, if you learn that a couple considers themselves soft swingers, is it an immediate turn off? “Turn off” might not be the right phrasing but it would make us evaluate the situation more. There would have to be qualities that warranted that kind of concession (really nice, fun, hot, etc). Aside from the actual lack of penetration, soft swap couples don't tend to be in sync with the way we are. (not just the slutty factor)

Do you perhaps set out to "convert" them to full-swap as a challenge? Never. We get nothing from converting or “de-verging” anyone.

Does it make a difference to you what a soft swinging couples rules are? Too many rules, or the presence of certain rules (like no kissing) would keep us from playing with someone…soft or full swap.

How many of you began in the lifestyle as soft swingers and have become full-swap? We had one soft swap experience and then went to full.