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Originally Posted by alphaplaycpl Since Mr. Alpha and i are Soft Swingers, I am curious to know...
Those of you who are full swap couples, if you learn that a couple considers themselves soft swingers, is it an immediate turn off? |
I wouldn't say it would be an immediate turn-off. We had a couple who we played with for about 6 months that was a soft swap couple, and we had a good time with them. We've also had soft swap experiences with 2 other couples at some point in time, and it's been fun. Now, we don't seek out soft swap couples, and we wouldn't want to ONLY do soft with all the couples we're with, but we're not opposed to it.
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Do you perhaps set out to "convert" them to full-swap as a challenge?
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It's not like we can't find plenty of full-swappers to play with, so why would we spend the time trying to coerce someone into something they weren't ready for, or just plain didn't want to do, for whatever reason? Too many full-swap fish in the sea for that....
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Does it make a difference to you what a soft swinging couples rules are? In other words, if the couple either swaps or doesn't for oral, does it make a difference in whether you will play with them or not?
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Yes, it would. The couple that we played with had no other limits other than no penis-vagina penetration with the opposite partner. That means toys, props, oral, etc was always a part of the equation, which made it different and less of a 'tease'.
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Also - how many of you began in the lifestyle as soft swingers and have become full-swap?
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We were soft swap for exactly one day
. While on vacation at Hedo 2, we soft swapped with a couple one afternoon, and full swapped the next day. We wanted to start off as soft, in case we had issues once we dipped our toes in, so to speak. We talked about it that night, and the next day, FULL speed ahead.
Pepper