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bklyn_40 · 07-10-2006, 10:38 AM

We used to have no pics and received NO RESPONSES. Then we had nude pics. Responses varied between outright vulgar to single men only addressing the wife. We now have only G pics public and some R for private.
The thing is (for us at least) is there has to be some physical attraction. We don't expect Ken & Barbie, but at least people who are HWP, not obese. We met too many people who did not have pics on the site & when we met them, it was a disaster. Last time we did this, they described themselves as very attractive, Him: 40, 6'1" 210# Her: 35, 5'6" 120#. Well he was 5'10" and around 300# with very lond DIRTY, hair while she was more like 5'4" & 180#'s and a far from "cute" face.
So we will not meet people with a pic. If you don't have pics on the site, you should at least have one you can attach. Why go through all the emails "getting to know" people just to find out they are not what they portrayed?
The only way we "may" meet people with out a pic is at a M&G or tell them we will be somewhere with others if they care to meet us.

07-10-2006, 10:38 AM	#3 (permalink)
bklyn_40 Registered Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 5 Location: PA	Re: mixed messages We used to have no pics and received NO RESPONSES. Then we had nude pics. Responses varied between outright vulgar to single men only addressing the wife. We now have only G pics public and some R for private. The thing is (for us at least) is there has to be some physical attraction. We don't expect Ken & Barbie, but at least people who are HWP, not obese. We met too many people who did not have pics on the site & when we met them, it was a disaster. Last time we did this, they described themselves as very attractive, Him: 40, 6'1" 210# Her: 35, 5'6" 120#. Well he was 5'10" and around 300# with very lond DIRTY, hair while she was more like 5'4" & 180#'s and a far from "cute" face. So we will not meet people with a pic. If you don't have pics on the site, you should at least have one you can attach. Why go through all the emails "getting to know" people just to find out they are not what they portrayed? The only way we "may" meet people with out a pic is at a M&G or tell them we will be somewhere with others if they care to meet us.