 Re: mixed messages
Lumina, feels the same to us too. After reading the "Lost my job for swinging" thread, I changed the way we handled our profile pics on the sites we belong to. And you know what? Interest in the form of e-mails and messages dropped off to nearly zero. Certainly an interesting turn of events. I will say this as a personal view, I (Chip) have to have some kind of connection with a person to swing with them. So if we have not established some rapport through messaging or e mail, the only thing left is physical attraction. So it becomes a dilemma. Do you meet someone that has no pics or G rated pics and hope something comes of it? Or do you filter your meets to only people that you think you may have a physical attraction to? I am sure some quality people have fallen by the wayside due to lack of pics or more accurately lack of "in demand" pics. I am certainly not an expert in this field, perhaps someone with more experience will wiegh in on the subject.
Chip
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