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Pepper & Drew · 07-09-2006, 10:07 PM

I would say we probably wouldn't play. It's commonly referred to as taking one for the team and just about everyone that's been in the lifestyle for a while has a story about being in that situation, and what they learned from it. Quite frankly, if one of us is turned on and the other totally isn't, "sucking it up" and playing anyway sucks. Really, really bad. We have enough friends now that we both enjoy playing with that it doesn't really make sense to play with someone we're only half attracted to. But, your mileage may vary.

Pepper

07-09-2006, 10:07 PM	#3 (permalink)
Pepper & Drew Mmmmm...tasty! Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 1,035 Location: Hurricane Alley Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:alhedonists	Re: only attracted to one 1/2 of the cpl I would say we probably wouldn't play. It's commonly referred to as taking one for the team and just about everyone that's been in the lifestyle for a while has a story about being in that situation, and what they learned from it. Quite frankly, if one of us is turned on and the other totally isn't, "sucking it up" and playing anyway sucks. Really, really bad. We have enough friends now that we both enjoy playing with that it doesn't really make sense to play with someone we're only half attracted to. But, your mileage may vary. Pepper
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