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"Why is it that if some guy doesn't desire another man, has no urge to touch another man, suck another man's cock, he's homophobic? Said guy isn't afraid of homosexuals, he just isn't turned on by another guy...what is so hard about this that people just don't get it? I'm not turned on by morbidly obese people...does that make me fat-phobic? No. I don't fear these people, they don't intimidate me. So why must a man be automatically thought homophobic just because he doesn't desire another man??"

Have to go with Quin on this one. Regardless if the male is "repulsed" or simply "not interested" it does make him fearful or homophobic. Once we were in a bed with two other couples and as I was doing 69 with one girl, I reached over and "thought" I was stroking one of the other girls leg & ass. Guess what? They had changed positions and he is virtually hairless*LOL*. Yes I caught some good natured ribbing later but no one was upset or thought that I menat anything by it. On the flip side, we would not even consider playing if a couple has a bi male. It is not a fear, just not for us.

PS-I love the veiw from the bottom half of 69 but it certainly hinders your perephial vision