The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Friend trying to talk to her husband about swinging

DBL D · 07-05-2006, 08:10 PM

I agree here with LM321, especially since you are a couple she seems to want to be with. Typically the first answer is always "no", Then you start talking and talking. LOL! You are at a kind of risk, but at least you live some distance apart. Try to stay objective with her as long as you can. We've been with the nicest couples and have seen jealousy appear instantly, up close and personal, it's not pretty and leaves a bad feeling. He needs to start explaining what he meant when he said they'd have to share another lady. What would that mean to him.

I think in the beginning most couples see swinging as something they do for themselves. They look forward to all the Hot sex with other couples on kind of an individual basis. Then they start to realize how special it is to share with your wife and be completely at ease. That is when things can really become enjoyable. If in the back of your mind you are expecting the Green Monster to show up, it's a major distraction.

Male D

07-05-2006, 08:10 PM	#9 (permalink)
DBL D Oh...Why not?... Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 2,312 Location: Northern Call-ee-forn-ee-ah Status: Married Couple	Re: Friend of a woman who wants her hubby to consider swinging.. I agree here with LM321, especially since you are a couple she seems to want to be with. Typically the first answer is always "no", Then you start talking and talking. LOL! You are at a kind of risk, but at least you live some distance apart. Try to stay objective with her as long as you can. We've been with the nicest couples and have seen jealousy appear instantly, up close and personal, it's not pretty and leaves a bad feeling. He needs to start explaining what he meant when he said they'd have to share another lady. What would that mean to him. I think in the beginning most couples see swinging as something they do for themselves. They look forward to all the Hot sex with other couples on kind of an individual basis. Then they start to realize how special it is to share with your wife and be completely at ease. That is when things can really become enjoyable. If in the back of your mind you are expecting the Green Monster to show up, it's a major distraction. Male D
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